metalgirlysolid:

mhaikkun:

reverse white-haired anime boy: he lives, but everyone he loves dies before him

wishingformemoria:

someone: why do you like muscular female characters? 

me:

queercishets:

I remember when i came out as ace to my mom and other ppl and described what that meant, they all said “isn’t that normal tho” and at the time i actually got offended by that, and I was the one saying “no it isnt!!” bc the ace community on tumblr had taught me that being ace OTHERED me from everyone else. Ace tumblr made me believe that non-ace ppl were like these sex-driven ppl who just wanted to have sex all the time and that that was NORMAL and so i was ABNORMAL

Literally the community of ppl who are claiming to be oppressed were the ones who told me i was weird and abnormal for being ace

Like every single person i talk to could be on the ace spectrum but they dont ID as ace bc tbh, asexual is rarely a cohesive identity, just as “allosexual” isn’t (and hence wherein some of the problems w the term “allosexual” come in to start with). You can’t have two distinct groups n say “this group experiences sexual attraction and this one doesnt” bc there are literally SO MANY ways to experience those things. And all those lil variations? Ppl arent oppressed for those. Are some maybe considered weirder than others? Yea, absolutely, but that doesn’t make oppression because at a systematic level, there’s no one going “look at all these ppl who aren’t sex-cr*zy, we need to kill them all” bc it’s actually NORMAL and COMMON w most people to have discrepancies with sexual attraction

It’s just interesting to think about.